"Friendzoning is bullshit because girls are not machines that you put Kindness Coins into until sex falls out."

 

Hoping my lucky hoodie will do it's job tomorrow

I feel like I haven't gone out in forever!

Chicken and waffles at my favorite BBQ restaurant.  SO GOOD, but my friends definitely had to help me finish it.  Decided to be a little adventurous and tried Banana bread beer. Now a new favorite

After dinner, we went to this awesome wine bar down the street.  Had a lot of drinks for cheap, and an old contestant from American Idol sang for us all night.

Martini flights- again, my friends had to help me finish these.

  

Free dirty watermelon shots for checking in on facebook

Like every girl on the planet, I am obsessed with drinking out of mason jars

Chocolate FUN-DO

Heated battle over fondue

Friends since the 11th grade

 

What are you a hardcore fan of?
the knicks, kate spade, mk, breaking bad

What are some lyrics that hit home with you?
I want to be the girl with the most cake

Are you responsible?
yup

Do you think you could take care of another person?
i have a very nurturing side to me

Ever had a pregnancy scare? Even if you're boy.
not since I went on the pill

Do you have scars you don't like to talk about?
no.

Have you ever been caught up in something?
in the past

Does music inspire you?
it can

Do you have things you own that you just want to get rid of?
yeah.

Ever want to take things you've said back?
sure

What's the worst thing you've said about someone?
nothing that wasn't true.

How do you feel when you're alone?
somewhat at peace

What calms you down when nothing else can?
fresh air and exercise

Do you smoke?
no

Does your life sometimes feel like a movie?
more like a soap opera, but with ugly people

Do you partake in gaming?
yes, not like hardcore though

Who has your heart?
my family and my close friends, they thawed out my icy heart. 

Do you have an ex who still talks to you?
bill texts me from time to time

Do they want to be with you again?
nope, nice guy and all, but people aren't in my life for a reason.

Do you connect with people?
yes, people say I'm friendly and likeable

Did your mother sing you a lullaby as a child?
she did

What were you doing right before you started this survey?:
facebook chat

Ever get mad at something that happened years ago?:
maybe just for a minute

What do you order on your pizza?:
nothing, just really good sauce

What's the kind of soda you drink most often?:
I do love Dr. Pepper, but sodas so horrible.

If you took a picture under your bed what would we see?:
dust bunnies, old text books.

Do you freak out if a bee / wasp flies near you?:
if they're too close for comfort

Have you ever swallowed a piece of ice whole?:
no

Who do you text the most?:
sarah

Name 3 things you ate today:
breakfast cereal bar, pizza rolls, shrimp with garlic sauce.

Do you think places like New York City and California are overrated?:
I've never been to California so I couldn't tell you.  I definitely think NYC is special

Have you ever had your eyes dilated?:
nope.

Does it bother you when you text somebody and they take forever to text back?:
if it's important, otherwise I understand that people have their own stuff going on.

Do you get sick after riding a roller coaster?:
yes. I'm always motion sick. On the train, in the backseat of the car, on small boats. oye.

Don't you hate when people assume you're jealous of somebody just because you dislike them?:
sometimes it's true though!

What do you think of girls sixteen and younger going on birth control?:
UMMM your asses should be playing jump rope and eating spaghettios, not bumping uglies. But if they're going to do it they should go on the pill. 

Who do you think looks better: really, skinny toothpick girls or full figure girls?:
full figure.

Do your legs get really itchy after shaving them?:
no

How old were you when you got your drivers' license (if you have it)?:
17?

Are you one of those people obsessed with Harry Potter or the Twilight series?:
no

Have you ever tripped, running up the stairs?:
hawhawhaw. yes.

Were you ever forced to read The Scarlet Letter in school?:
no.

Do you think some people are crazy for wearing jeans in the summer?:
i do when it's like 108 degrees outside.

Have you ever gotten a sunburn so bad it hurt to move?:
no, my face gets red but that's it. 

Is there somebody that texts / calls you 24 / 7?:
yes, LITERALLY.

What song could you listen to over and over and never get sick of it?:
delfonics- didn't I

Has anyone ever hung up on you?:
a telemarketer hung up on me last month.

Would you ever spend the night in an old, abandoned house that was rumored to be haunted?:
NO.

Have you ever paid for something in all change?:
yep.

Do you seem to attract the old, pervy men?:
I attract the most random people.

Have you ever slipped and fallen on ice?:
yeah.

What accent is your favorite?:
Southern, then Irish. 

If you had to choose between going on a cruise to the Bahamas for a week or spending two week touring Europe, which would you pick?:
I'll be going to the Bahamas for the third time this summer, let's do europe.

Do you know anybody that's a cheerleader?:
back when i was in hs

Do you have any piercings, where are they?
my ears.

What was the last movie you watched?
killer klowns from outerspace. Seriously.

Do you have someone of the opposite sex you can tell everything to?
not EVERYTHING

Honestly, who was the last person to tell you that they love you?
one of my clients lol

Who was the last person you went out to eat with?
probably my parents.

Have you ever been called beautiful?
a few times.

The last person you kissed, how many times have you cried in front of them?
none

Next time you will kiss someone on the lips?
Not sure

Do you plan on sleeping in tomorrow?
that'd be nice.

What's something you really want right now, be honest?
dirty mind

Does it matter to you if your boyfriend/ girlfriend drinks?
as long as he's not an alcoholic or a mean drunk.

Are you afraid of getting cheated on?
nope, if it happens then I'm a fool, but I'll get smart and move on. He'll have to live with it and lose me. 

Do you own a pair of skinny jeans?
yes

Who was the last person you talked to in person?
Q

First thing you did when you woke up today?
put on music

What color did you last paint your nails?
pink

Have you ever had a best friend?
yes.

How many people would you take a bullet for?
family

Are you a fan of iced coffee?
no

How are you feeling RIGHT now?
restless and hungry

Do you like anyone?
yeah

Do you like your hair?
eh. on some days.

What book are you reading right now?
i'm actually not reading anything, for once

Does your best friend ever wear fake nails?
no.

What was your biggest fear as a child?
everything lol

If you could put one night on repeat and replay it forever, would you?
maybe not forever, but I'd like to replay it

Would you have a baby with the last person you kissed?
that escalated quickly

Have you ever liked someone older than you?
well, yes.

Is anyone on your bad side right now?
no

Did you go outside for more than 30 minutes today?
yes, trampoline

Do you remember who you liked 3 months ago?
i do

Has anyone said they love you in the last week?
just family really

Who was the last person you hugged?
dom lol

Do you have any siblings?
3 brothers

Do you sleep with the door opened or closed?
closed.

Do your jeans have rips, tears, and holes in them?
no.

Tell me about the shirt you are wearing?
its a grey striped shirt

What is the last non-alcoholic beverage you had?
water.

Do you prefer pasta, salad, or coleslaw?
PASTA OVER EVERYTHING.

Do you find smoking unattractive?
yes

I've been extremely stressed about school this week. In my group approaches class it was my turn to counsel a group.  I've had anxiety about it for weeks, and was doubting myself a lot (ironically enough, my group's topic was stress management and personal values).  Luckily, I have really awesome friends, coworkers and family members.  They listened to my worries and assured me that I would do great.  My coworkers let me practice the group with them and gave me positive feedback which made me feel more confident. 

I was super nervous all day- I could barely eat, and had trouble focusing my mind on other things. I was kind of nervous when I got into class, but my classmates reassured me and told me they had my back.  The group flowed very well, there was resistance from one group member, but I got her to talk a bit.  They really enjoyed the personal values clarification exercise I planned for them.  Lots of people said it was very insightful, and helped them realize they need to make changes in their lives.  Three people even asked for extra copies of it so they could use it for the groups they lead at their internships and jobs. 

My professor said I did a great job.  I was anticipating more feedback, but I can deal with that.

Afterwards, I took my career development final.  We graded it in class and I scored a 100%.  I thought we were gonna leave class after that, but my professor asked if anyone was ready to do their group presentations.  My group member, Jill wanted us to present first to get it over with.   Even though I felt extremely unprepared, I decided to trust her judgement.  We went up together, and winged it.  Got full credit for it. 

I still have another week of classes, but it should be a cake walk- all I have to do is hand in a summary paper and participate in our last group.  Now I feel like I can finally relax- this semester has been so stressful, but I have learned so much and I have definitely grown as a helper. 

So happy and proud of myself

Inspired by one of the icebreakers in my group counseling class. I think these will be easy to guess. I'm boring. 

1. I'm very superstitious
2. I once got catfished
3. I have an accent.
4. I don't curse, unless I'm drunk.
5. I have a 4.0 cumulative GPA in my graduate program.
6. I always wear something green
7. I can't wink
8. I was in Catholic school for 4 years
9. I talk in my sleep
10. I've lived in NY my whole life but I've never been to the Empire State building or Statue of Liberty. 
11. I've been to Bermuda four times
12. I'm going on my 9th cruise this Summer
13. I have dated someone somewhat famous.
14. I hate coffee
15. I've been to a Super Bowl
16. I'm Native American
17. I was originally planning on going to law school after college, but changed my mind.
18. I have a thing for Asian guys.
19. I'm celibate
20. I almost had a shot gun wedding when I was still a teenager
21. My favorite color is yellow.
22. I've been dating someone on the DL for two months. 
23. I'm very clairvoyant.
24. I exercise twice a day.
25. I'm going to Europe for the first time next year. 

Blanket hog for life, tough little lady boss. 

Best weekend in a while! Visited my brother and his lovely girl in Pennsylvania and went to see the cherry blossoms in DC.  Had good food, drinks, met up with some xangans and got to explore two new areas.  I wish I would've brought my camera so I could've taken more pics.

Homemade donuts with strawberry, chocolate and vanilla sauce

Prettiest tulips I've ever seen

This restaurant was awesome.

First time in Dean & Deluca.  Where have you been all my life?

My brother is a writer so his guest room is filled with the best books.. heaven

My brother's cat.  Me and her became fast friends. She's laying down on my clothes lol

 

 

1. White or red wine?

red

2. Who was the last person you hugged?

My mom

3. Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?

No

4. Where did your first kiss take place?

Outside of school on my way to my bus.

5. Do you prefer foxes or wolves?
foxes.

6. What is your shoesize? 
8ish

7. Do you prefer fruit or vegetables?
fruit

8. Have you ever kissed a member of the same sex?
plead the fifth

9. Would you rather never fall in love again or never orgasm again?
why would you make me choooose

10.What does your outfit consist of today?
very tomboy- jeans, grey loose striped shirt, stud earrings, hair pulled back in a headband. 

11.What are your bust-waist-hip measurements?

last year it was 34-26-37. i've lost weight so it's probably changed.

12.Are you a hypocrite?

i can be, trying to fix that. 

13.Why did you last cry?

watching a sad scene in a movie

14.What are your favourite smells?

books, brownies baking, fresh laundry, clean boyfriend smell,

15.What are your favourite textures?

omg, my favorite thing in the world is dipping my hands into a bag of grains

16.Fur or feathers?

I do like feathered earrings

17.Tartan or tweed?
ew

18.Leopard print or neon?
neon.

19.Any beauty tips?
don't waste all your money on make up

20.Happiest moment of your life ?
I've had many little moments

21.If you won a LOT of money the lottery and decided to move, where would you move to?
I wouldn't move but I'd want a house in Puerto Rico

22.Alcoholic beverage of choice?
Beer, sangria

23.What is more attractive: Nice hands or nice feet?
Hands. 

24.What’s the youngest you would consider dating?
I don't like dating guys who are younger than me.

25.If you were around in the sixties would you be a mod or a rocker?
Mod, could you imagine me?

26.Are thongs sexy?
Yeah

27.Did you grow up in a healthy environment? 
eeerrrrr 50/50 lol.

28.What do you think of when I say “the twenties”?
Gatsby

29.Could you ever deliver a baby?
No

31.What did your last text read?
from Jill saying she's going to email me.

32.Can you ride a bicycle?
Yes

33.What sport were you best at in high school?
lol definitely not volleyball -_-

34.Who do you miss right now?
A friend

35.What was the last alcoholic beverage you consumed?
beer

36.Paris, London and New York… which one would you live in, which would you visit for a day, which would you visit for a fortnight?

live in new york, london for a day, paris for a fortnight.

37.What is your sexuality?

Straight.

38.Heavy rain or heatwave?
heat wave

39.Chicken or fish?
chicken

40.Do you think suits are sexy?
If they're well tailored, yes.